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    Scripture Memorization, Week 23

    By Encouragement, God

    For several weeks of Scripture memory, I’m walking through what’s been referred to as “The Roman Road”; a comprehensive look at what it means to be a follower of Christ through the book of Romans. You can see last week’s HERE. (It’s important to go with this weeks!)

    Here is this week’s memory verse:

    Will you commit this verse to memory this week?

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    The Strangest Thing You’ve Seen in a Woman’s Purse

    By Culture, Funny

    So the other day I was at a mall and witnessed something that made me chuckle. This mom apparently had 3 kids and a husband. Of course, that was an assumption I made about them, but for this story it won’t really matter. What I thought was funny was the woman’s purse. It wasn’t huge, but every child and the husband wanted something from the woman and she found it in her purse. Apparently she was the keeper of her family’s stuff.

    Ever seen that one before?

    She had a brush, money, some kind of medicine and a bottle of mustard. I know…random right…but that’s what made me chuckle. This mom was prepared for whatever her family needed…all within a single purse.

    So it made me wonder…

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    4 Commitments We’ll Make as Grandparents

    By Children, Family, Parenting

    This is a premature post. My boys will probably balk at it, but I’ll be honest. I’m a people watcher. That’s especially true when I’m out of town where I don’t know anyone.

    This week I’m in Florida to perform my oldest son’s wedding. He and his soon-to-be wife have been together for many years, so we feel she’s already part of the family. They say they want to enjoy life together a few years, but we know they both love children, so, even though we would encourage them to take their time, we suspect they’ll have children within the first few years of marriage.

    That means we’ll someday be grandparents and it has made me more conscious of what it will be like at that stage of life. Cheryl and I talk about it often.

    Today I saw a family out with a grandmother. It was a beautiful family. The kids seemed well-behaved. The parents seemed attentive. The only problem, in my opinion, was an over-bearing, controlling grandmother. Every time the children did anything she corrected them. She consistently over-ruled the parents with the children. She didn’t appear as a loving grandmother, but rather as a family friend who grew impatient with the couple’s children.

    I’ve already told my boys, but I feel I need to tell you for accountability purposes. Here are 4 commitments Cheryl and I hope to make as grandparents:

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    4 Do’s and 4 Don’ts for Speaking to Visitors or Strangers

    By Church, Leadership

    In what I do, if I don’t know how to communicate with people I don’t already know, I won’t be very successful.

    I have an occasion to speak to strangers frequently. Thankfully, our church attracts dozens of new visitors each week, I’m invited to speak other places often, and I encounter new people daily through this blog. I’m learning (it’s a continual process) that there are some specific ways I should and shouldn’t speak publicly to someone who doesn’t know me well. Most of these are true to any audience, but especially for an audience of visitors or strangers.

    Here are 4 do’s and 4 dont’s when talking to people you’ve never met.

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    How I Lost 10 Pounds in Less than 2 Months using LoseIt

    By Culture, Encouragement, Innovation

    I believe physical health is important for the leader.  I have written about this before HERE. I know there are times a leader can’t do anything about his or her health, but if there is an option, the leader should strive to be healthy. It makes me more productive when I feel better physically.

    Recently I lost 10 pounds to get in even better shape.

    A short history:

    I’m 47…I feel good…and I’m in good shape physically. I run almost everyday. I monitor my weight and I eat semi-healthy.  In my mid thirties I got slightly overweight, about 15 pounds, and decided to do something about it. I worked hard to reach my ideal weight and stay there consistently for almost 10 years. In the last 18 months, due to stressful, fast-paced living, and lots of traveling, I added back another 10 pounds. I tried what had worked before to lose the weight, but nothing seemed to work.

    Some call it a middle-aged spread.

    The story:

    On March 30th of this year, I had lunch with my friend Michael Hyatt. I hadn’t seen Michael in a couple months and instantly recognized how well he looked. He had obviously lost weight. He is slightly older than me, so I knew he would probably struggle as I had, so I asked him for his secret. Always a teacher, Michael shared with me that he had been closely monitoring what he eats using the LoseIt application.

    I had tried this application, but never disciplined myself to actually use it. This time I was determined.  It worked!

    Here’s how the LoseIt application worked for me:

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    One Thing I’ve Learned About Conflict

    By Church, Encouragement, Leadership, Team Leadership

    Many leaders avoid conflict at any cost…

    It seems this is true especially of pastors…

    Yet conflict is often necessary for healthy relationships…

    When needed conflict is avoided, people grow bitter, relationship development stalls, and teams suffer…

    Here’s one thing I’ve learned about conflict…

    Perhaps this well motivate you to confront what you need to confront…

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    Challenge: Let’s Make It A Great Week!

    By Encouragement, Innovation, Life Plan, Vision

    This is a random Sunday afternoon post…

    I want to encourage us to have a great week this next week…

    I believe and strive for continual improvement…

    In my experience, this happens best when we make intentional changes…

    That’s the point of this post…

    This next week, I want to encourage…challenge…even dare you to make an intentional change to improve something in your life…

    I’ll go first…

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