Have you ever tried to lead someone who didn’t want to be led? The same children that were labeled “strong-willed” by their parents often grow up to be strong-willed adults. Perhaps you know one…perhaps you are one.
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Tweet My job involves a lot of relationships. I have learned the key to healthy relationships is communication. And there are some things not to do if you’re attempting “healthy”…
Tweet What are some principles for healthy discipline of children? That’s a question I’m consistently asked about as pastor. I am not an expert – and every family is unique,…
Tweet How do we give constructive criticism? It’s something all of us see and want to share, but how do we do it in a way that actually helps? Constructive:…
One of the toughest jobs in the church is that of being a pastor’s wife. No doubt I have one of the best in Cheryl. (I would say the best, but I have a co-pastor and he has an excellent one also!) Cheryl has a full-time professional job, is an excellent mom and wife, but the demands on her as my wife are often overwhelming. Still she handles it with grace and a smile.
Tweet This is a tribute to the moms without children – of their own. I’ve posted this thought a number of times through the years, because I’m always sensitive to…
Tweet After years of working with marriages, including my own, I’ve come to a conclusion. A struggling marriage is often lacking one key ingredient – acts of grace. When applied appropriately,…
I once wrote that growth covers over a multitude of problems. (Read that post HERE.) I know many organizations and people that mistakenly believe for a time (before it catches up with them) that busyness means things are moving in the right direction. That may or may not be true, but success always depends more on the type of activity than on the quantity of activity.
Tweet People make assumptions about introverts. I know. I am an introvert. Some people can question whether they are or not. I don’t. I’m certified in Myers Briggs, so I know…
Tweet Writing a letter is sometimes the best way to communicate effectively. When I was doing professional counseling with people who were experiencing difficulty in a relationship, I often encouraged…