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    Tips for Leading Older, and Often Wiser, People

    By Church Planting, Leadership, Organizational Leadership, Team Leadership

    In my first management position, I was a 19 year-old college sophomore working full-time and leading a small staff of four people in the men’s clothing area of a major department store. I was placed in the position almost by default, because the previous manager left unexpectedly and I was there and eager to lead. Everyone working for me was older than I was, including one man who was in his sixties.

    Today, even though I have aged considerably since then, I continue to be in a position where people older than me, with more experience than I have in many areas, report to me by position. Since I work with many pastors and church planters who are starting out in their ministry and will likely encounter the same experience with either volunteers or paid staff, I am hoping this will be helpful information.

    Here are 7 tips for leading people older than you:

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    7 Ways To Honor Your Pastor’s Spouse

    By Christians, Church, Encouragement, Family

    One of the toughest jobs in the church is that of being a pastor’s wife. No doubt I have one of the best in Cheryl. (I would say the best, but I have a co-pastor and he has an excellent one also!) Cheryl has a full-time professional job, is an excellent mom and wife, but the demands on her as my wife are often overwhelming. Still she handles it with grace and a smile.

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    7 Ways I Protected My Family Life as a Pastor

    By Call to Ministry, Church, Church Planting, Encouragement, Family, Leadership, Marriage

    If a pastor is not careful, the weight of everyone else’s problems will take precedence over the issues and concerns of his immediate family. I see it frequently among pastors I encounter. There have been seasons of my ministry where this is the case, especially on abnormally stressful days.

    I decided years ago when I was a small business owner, serving in an elected office and on dozens of non-profit boards that my busyness would never detract from my family life.

    Here are 7 ways I attempt to protect my family from the stress of ministry.

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    5 Shared Characteristics Needed to do Church Planting or Church Revitalization

    By Call to Ministry, Church, Church Planting, Church Revitalization, Leadership, Missions

    Recently I posted a funny video about what it takes to be a church planter. Want a laugh? Watch it HERE. I decided it might be a good idea to share what I really believe is necessary to be a church planter. Church planting is a difficult, but rewarding assignment in ministry. All pastors and planters should operate under a calling of God, but it does appear to me that there are some unique qualifications for church planters.

    From experience, here are five characteristics I believe it takes to be an effective church planter:

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