It was a tough day. A couple weeks ago my office seemed to have a revolving door. We have so much activity and excitement in the church right now, but the normal demands of ministry have not slowed to allow margin for the extra work required of me. In the midst of administrative and managerial responsibilities I also encountered a number of hurting people. I was confronted several times with issues where another person had wronged one person and they wanted me to help them change the other person they sense was mistreating them. It has always fascinated me when people expect the pastor to enforce morals on people in order to change them.
One of the principles I have learned in life and ministry is that RULES NEVER CHANGE PEOPLE. It doesn’t matter how many you have, how strictly you enforce them, or even how loyal people are to obey them. Rules alone never change a person. Rules are often necessary to protect people and bring order to chaos, but for people to change a heart has to change. Truth impacting a person’s heart changes people, not rules. I fully realize God uses people in this process, but I believe our role is more about directing people’s attention towards Christ, than it is enforcing their behavior.
The greatest role I have as a pastor, in my opinion, is to introduce people to the life-changing message of Jesus Christ, help them learn the truths of His Word, help them become growing followers of Christ (disciples), but then allow God’s Spirit to change their heart, which will ultimately change their life.
I am praying today for more opportunities to spur hearts towards the life-changing message of Christ.
I couldn’t agree more… I feel that it’s the job of the holy spirit to convict and change people. It’s merely our job to help present God’s message, and most often, I feel, by example and attitude more than anythng else. Especially with people that aren’t part of your direct family… That exmple may be all that they’re open to paying attention to from you
Amen! I heartily agree with you on this! I never understand why church members insist on pastors away from their God-given assignments, when they should just be looking to the Lord and obeying His Word! Sometimes “Body-Life” makes me so frustrated!(and I’m not even a pastor!!) I know I need to remember that everyone grows in the Lord at different rates, and must be patient with people as the Holy Spirit changes them. My expectations should only be of the Lord!!