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Friday Discussion: Eternal Security

A recent college graduate from our church sent me an email recently. She’s struggled with her spiritual past. She became a believer early in life, got off track for a while, and now she’s on fire for God, Her dilemma is whether she lost her salvation during that time. She wonders what would have happened to her eternally had she died during her time of wandering. She wanted to know why I believe in eternal security.

I realize I’m stepping in dangerous territory with this discussion question. This issue divides people theologically as much as any other. Some of my closest believing friends would disagree with me here, believing that one can lose their salvation, but I believe in eternal security. I am not a theologian so I look for simple answers.

Here is my quick answer to my friend:

Dear _______,

These are standard questions most people wrestle with at some point in life. Great questions.

Here’s a short answer. I believe in eternal security, because:

  • The Bible says “Believe in the Lord Jesus and you SHALL be saved”…not you might be saved…

  • The Bible says “Do not worry”…How could you not worry if you were constantly wondering if you’ve gone too far…if you had lost your salvation?

  • It takes grace to be saved, why would it take works to remain saved?

  • Works are the result of salvation, not to earn or keep salvation…

  • Was there ever a time when you were “living in sin” when you didn’t “believe”? I’d say probably not…you may not have looked like a believer…but Jesus looks at the heart, not the outward appearance…

  • If we start drawing lines of how to lose salvation, where does the line stop? Could we ever remain saved? It’s just like the law…Jesus even added higher standards…one bad thought…one lust…one hatred…one dishonoring of parents…one idol placed in front of God…and we’re doomed…who then could be saved? Read the rich young ruler story…”What’s impossible for man is possible with God”…

The bottom line though is what difference does it make about what could have happened then? The bottom line is, are you saved now? Which, from watching your heart and life, I believe you are indeed.

Rejoice in your salvation!

Love your heart!

Hope this helps!

God bless,

Ron

There is so much more to this issue, but I suspect many others, including me, have wrestled with this same issue.

How would you have answered?

What questions do you have about eternal security?

Does this testimony resemble your own?

Share your thoughts!

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Great summation of eternal security! Certainly a topic that creates heated discussion, but usually because we don't define our own terms too well. My seven year old struggled with this recently, yes my SEVEN year old. But he took comfort in what Jesus said in John 10, "no one can snatch them from my hand" he further said, "my sheep will never perish." In the Greek, it is written with a double negative, a device used to accentuate the force of Jesus' statement. It literally reads, "my sheep will not never perish." Maybe Jesus was really a good ole boy from my neck of the woods! ;) If we can undo what He did, then He is not who He says He is! Thanks again.
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I'm with you; once saved always saved. Where I waver is with the thought of were you really saved in the first place. Going back to your quote "Believe in the Lord Jesus Christ..." The question I think becomes, did you really believe? That's an incredibly gray area. I am human and I will continue to sin. But the thing is, with a belief in Jesus as my savior, I try not to sin or I have guilt from my sin and I attempt to change my sin patterns. I am willing to be shown by others that I am in a sin pattern. If I say that I have been saved, but then go out the next day with my old crowd and steal and kill and rape, I would question whether I really meant that prayer. And really, it's between that person and Jesus; we can speculate, but that's all it is. With a "normal" person, I'd say that if someone gets to the point where they want to accept Jesus and do so, then they have been saved.

When I first prayed that prayer, I was left in a "now what" kind of position. For years I wandered being good on Sunday and a mixed bag the rest of the time. It took years before I realized how to "be" a Christian. But during that time, I believe that I was still saved.

Then for years I had a poor relationship with Him that impacted my life negatively in so many ways. And finally, about two years ago, He saved me out of that mess and probably for the first time in my life, I realized what it is to have a really good and trusting relationship with God. The time between being saved and two years ago was over 35 years. But even in that lostness, I believe that I was still saved. And along the way, when I could see the failures in my life, I rededicated my life to Him. Not that I felt unsaved, but felt the need to say the words. But still I believe that I was saved.
Yes, I'd rather that debate too, and it's where I take people every time they come to me with this issue....
Noel, thanks for your thoughtful, insightful comments. I should have also said, "I'm not an intellectual". I'm a pretty simple guy you know. But, you are right, the big deal is "What's the state of your heart, right now, in this moment?" Totally agree.
I agree. You form your thoughts and discussion well, though, and sound like you've done your research. Maybe you're not an "intellectual" per se...but you're obviously a great thinker.

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I appreciate the insight. I would have answered the same. Honestly, does it matter? She's walking with the Lord now.

I appreciate the question you asked "Was there ever a time when you were “living in sin” when you didn’t “believe”? Yep, even when I walked in sin I still believed in Christ. I just wasn't obeying.

However, I can't get pass we all have a free will: we can choose to walk away and choose to come back.
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I so much agree, in the end Laurinda. I do think it's worth considering, because so many are tripped up in their walk by what happened years ago, but I agree...if she's in now...that's the part worth rejoicing.
Makes sense to me. Thanks for sharing your heart.
Just completed a fantastic book by 'Jerry Bridges' called "The Gospel for Real Life". The author was dealing on the same subject. People in such a state of mind should be reading it. Found it very refreshing and strengthening.

Anyone with a 'ho-hum' attitude about our salvation, a 'take it or leave it' attitude will enjoy reading this resource. I am sure with the author, we will celebrate our life with Christ. I found this book a very basic, easy to read guideline to the aspect of Salvation and the Christian Life. Through beautiful story-telling, pointed analogies, and soul-stirring metaphors the author makes deep truths easily understood.
1 reply · active 723 weeks ago
Thanks for recommending this book. I've read some of his work before...good stuff.

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