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When You Can’t Seem to Find Your Purpose

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The other day someone said to me, “Pastor, Sorry I haven’t gotten involved in the church yet, but I don’t know what I’m supposed to be doing right now. I can’t seem to find my purpose.”

I hear that kind of thing often. In this case, it’s been five years and the person is still waiting. Doing nothing. Inactive. Waiting for that “purpose” which may never arrive with this manner of search.

Here’s a good principle when seeking purpose in life.

Sometimes you have to work a purpose to find a purpose.

I hear from people all the time who can’t seem to find their place.

In church. In work. In life.

They want to know their purpose. Their unique role. Their calling.

But they never seem to find it.

So they wait on the sidelines. They make excuses.

Never seeming to find their purpose in life. What they do best. What they were meant to do.

My advice.

Try something new.

Do things. Explore. Test. Experiment.

Do honorable, good, helpful things.

But just do something. Try lots of different things. But do something.

You’ll do some things well. Some not so well. You’ll fail. You’ll succeed. You’ll have fun. Some not so fun.

Along the way you may just find a purpose.

Life purposes seldom fall from the sky. Mostly they are discovered in the process of discovery. How you are wired. How you are gifted. Where you have passion. Where God wants to use you most.

Sometimes you have to work a purpose to find a purpose.

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  • Jon says:

    Waiting for the right purpose to come along or not wanting to get involved before knowing one's purpose seems to me like wanting to find the perfect spouse without any of the dating or getting to know you part of the dance. O agree with you, date those different activities around the church until you find the right one.

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    A great reminder Ron. Thanks for this.

  • jonstallings says:

    I have heard this a lot Ron (A few years ago you may have heard it from me). There are countless accounts in the Bible when someone had to step out not know where they were going or what they were doing. Once they did God would show up and show the next step. God is just looking for that step of faith and that sign of willingness to serve.