Think you have a great idea….sleep on it…
If you read this blog regularly, surely you have learned that I’m a risk-taker by nature. I love to encourage big dreams and I want to be a catalyst for idea generation and innovative thought. I’m even a church planter!!! Talk about risk…
In spite of that tendency in me to act quickly, I have learned one principle of leadership by personal experience…this is one of those wisdom learned by mistake kind of things…so listen closely…
When you get the next great idea…don’t act on it immediately…even as great an idea as it may be. Sleep on it…for a day…a week…or a season…(depending on the size of and type of the idea)…before you take action towards it. (Now if you are absolutely certain it’s a “word from God” then move immediately, but in my case I have mistaken His voice for my own ideas a few times…so you might keep reading…)
I know…I know…that seems to contradict some of what you have been taught. If you don’t act immediately, someone else will steal your idea. If you don’t act immediately, you may lose valuable momentum. If you don’t act immediately, you might miss out on an opportunity.
I’m not trying to kill ideas, I’m trying to help you make better ideas. Before you throw stones, consider my rationale…keep this in mind…here’s why this is important…
You want to make the decision you are making is not based solely on emotion. You want time for emotions to subside (if they are going to) before you invest the energy and resources into the idea.
Still questioning? Consider this…
You wouldn’t advise someone who is experiencing negative emotions to make immediate decisions…would you? If someone loses a spouse, you wouldn’t encourage him or her to make a random and sudden decision to sell everything and move where they know no one…would you?
Why are positive emotions anymore trustworthy?
Remember, you don’t have to act immediately to act quickly. I realize there is a great balance here between stalling out and pausing, but don’t allow your emotions to cause you to react too quickly and regret your decision later.
Pause, get wise counsel, make sure rationale is equal to emotion…then you can and should move fast…you’ll be glad the emotion is still strong…
Share your story…
Have you made too quick of a decision you later regretted making?
What did it cost you?
I sure have. There is a huge cost to making a decision that cost dearly: lost of money, credibility. And many times there is a sense of embarassment. It's not a good feeling.
Agreed.
I think this principle even applies to blogging. Sometimes when I rush to post a great idea, I can forget to frame it in a context that readers can appreciate. Even if you have great intent, things that are posted in haste may be misunderstood, and may even offend. A good idea today will still be a good idea tomorrow. Sleeping on it helps me to view it with fresh eyes, and communicate it with greater integrity.
Yes…and my messages too…I actually have another post in the works about writing them and this is part of it for me. Of course…maybe that would have applied to this post also…HA! Thanks!
No worries, Ron. This post is great!
Thanks Larry….BTW, I'm hearing from tons of Canadian people this week….Reminding me how much I love your country. (I actually met with a church planter today who spent the last 5 years in Alberta.)
You are welcome up here any time. We'll be sure to stop by GCC next time we are in Tennessee.
Great points. The subject "Why are positive emotions anymore trustworthy?" really hit the mark in my life. I'm so timid to address the negative emotions, but so eager to act on the positive. Stepping back from both to separate myself from the emotional attachment is a very important and necessary principle.
Thanks Braden. This truly is something I have learned the hard way…
Great post Ron. To add to this I would say what I always tell people that say they feel like they heard something from the Lord, “wait for confirmation”. God will never whisper something in your ear, only to remain silent going forward. He will ALWAYS confirm what he says. So pray and wait for confirmation. If it was God, he’ll confirm it through others, doors opening, etc.
Thanks Tony! Good points
I was going to say, Pray…but you beat me to it. Very good thoughts Tony.
Thanks Michael!
Good words. True of purchasing and moving and so much more. God can do more in less time with prayerful invitation than anything we can conjure up in a hurry.
Yes, in the money issue this is especially true. Thanks!