Some things you have to live to fully understand.
All my life I’ve heard the phrase, “You’d have to experience it to understand it”. The older I get the more I know that statement to be true about many things. I was reflecting recently about ways I’ve heard that statement used and ways it’s come true in my life. Some of these below I have experienced; some I haven’t. Some I hope to; some I hope I never will.
Here are 30 things you have to experience to understand
(in no particular order):
- Meeting a payroll
- The pain of divorce
- Completing a degree
- Skydiving
- Becoming a parent/grandparent
- Living by faith
- Falling in love
- The speed at which a child grows up
- The pain of kidney stones…or having a baby
- Going on a mission trip
- Getting married
- Receiving salvation
- Driving on the Autobahn
- Losing a job
- Getting hired
- Finally forgiving someone
- Being elected to public office
- Missing the last flight home
- Experiencing unconditional love
- Buying your first home
- Retiring
- Loss of a child
- Caring for an elderly parent
- A first kiss
- Loss of a business
- Battling depression
- Working in customer service
- Being rejected
- Catching the game winning ball
- Being in the middle of a war zone
For what have you heard (or lived) that phrase apply?
(This is a revised repost, with additions, after I heard this phrase again last week.)
Twitter: EricaFaraone
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Living with invisible, chronic illness. Definitely something you have to experience to understand.
I'm sure that true.
Twitter: Corriecmartin
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Miscarriage
I'm sorry, but know you are right. My wife did
The "hearing His voice" comment is very true. I still remember clear as day the first time it happened for me – and changed me forever. The undeniable, powerful, "holy cow I can't believe that just happened" type of experience. Which then made it so much easier to hear Him in other ways and circumstances, and created a real, ongoing conversation.
Yes. I agree.
After reading the list, I must say I have lived and experienced. Thanks Ron for sharing. You give me great insight on a lot of days when I need it.
Thanks Yvonne.
Being physically healed by God, and to feel something moving while its happening, way too cool
being homeless
Wow, you've got a great story to share!
Learning directly from Jesus.
Revelation directly from Jesus.
Deut 4:36
Out of heaven he made thee *to hear His Voice,*
that *He might instruct thee:*
Hearing *His Voice.* – Knowing *His Voice.* – Obeying *His Voice.*
Walking by F.A.I.T.H. NOT by sight.
F.orsaking A.ll I. T.rust H.im…
Absolutely
Surviving the person with whom you're in love.
The delirium that comes with dehydration.
Adrenaline that comes with being in a life-threatening car accident.
Certain words in other languages… like schön.
Watching a special ed student get the answer right (and the class cheering him/her on).
Watching a special ed student be beaten up.
Situations in which you have absolutely no control.
…just to name a few. I'm sure I could keep going.
Wow! There are some heavy ones. Each of these are certainly things you have to experience to understand.
Yes, they are, aren't they? It's been a strange night, sorry. Lemme throw a lighter one in there too: the joy you get from thinking about someone and then turning around and seeing them. 🙂
That is wild when that happens
Kicking an addiction.
Tithing your last $100.
Deep betryal.
Forgivness.
A miracle.
Thank you. I've “experienced” a couple of these.
This kind of goes along with unconditional love… but I'd say being broken by God's love, or being witness to seeing someone (especially a close friend of family member) broken by God's love. It's probably one of the most beautiful things I've both experienced and witnessed.
Yes, very true!
Will second battling depression.
But will also add "watching your family split apart" because being a child of divorce hurts just as much as divorce would, I imagine.
Wow. That's heavy but true
Heavy but true is my specialty :p
Twitter: Thomsthoughts
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Having been in the helping profession for many, many years, this is a statement that at times I do not like to hear. It is true, that first hand experience is the best, but it is also used as a reason to not reach out for help in troubling times. "It didn't happen to you, so you don't understand." This is so true, and to be perfectly honest, one of the worst things you can say in a counseling relationship is "I understand". It is better to say: "Please tell me more about your story, I want to understand it better." Nice post.
I have a degree in counseling and I remember them teaching us that. It changed the way I communicate with people in need. Thanks
Seeing Jesus face to face. It blows me away to imagine what that will be like.
Absolutely. It will be amazing!
Not experienced but heard:
Battling an addiction
Bankruptcy
Spouse cheating
— Joy of running in the early morning
— Failing in the examinations
— Globe trotting
— Scuba diving
— Adventure trekking
Great ones.
Twitter: SCJohnEd
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Serving your country.
Being deployed during the holidays.
Being a military veteran.
True JOY of the love of Jesus.
the adrenaline rush of getting a tattoo
the joy of seeing a close friend come to Christ
Ha! I'll take your word for the first one 🙂 I've done the second one and totally agree.